The Failure Of Spirituality, Self-Help And Self-Development
One of the central reasons
That a human does not transform
Is because of a lack of honesty.
The spiritualists are not evil.
The self-help guru’s are not malevolent.
The masses and devotees
Are not necessarily stupid.
But none of them are Honest.
What I mean by honest
Is not that the guru’s intentionally lie.
Or attempt to mislead.
Or that the masses attempt to deceive.
But that the core of their works,
The fulcrum of their thinking,
And the heart of their intentions
Is not Honesty.
If a guru wishes to prescribe meditation,
So be it.
In and of itself
There is no harm in this.
But this prescription is Never followed by,
“Meditation may do absolutely nothing for you.”
This is not to say
That meditation will do nothing
For a person.
It may
Or it may not.
Perhaps it will give him a few minutes of peace
And if this is satisfactory for the individual,
Then so be it.
But the trouble with guru’s
And coaches
And instructors
And authors
And speakers
And the entire lot . . .
Is that they Never
Ever
Ever
Ever
Absolutely Never . . .
Tell the entire story.
Never.
Ever.
Ever.
A piece of the story
Is like walking in on the middle of a conversation.
This can only result in one thing:
Failure.
Why do they not tell the whole story?
Because there is something at stake for them.
They wrote their books to Sell Copies.
They utter their sermons to Fill Seats.
At the very least,
They wish to Be Heard.
At the very very least
They wish to Help.
Because they have an Angle,
No matter the nature of the angle,
Honesty is simply not possible.
For Honesty is a dangerous thing.
It may result in them not selling many books.
Or not filling many seats.
Or not being heard.
For humans want Headlines.
They do not want to hear
That something may work
Or may not.
Humans are hungry for Hope.
And these people and institutions
Provide it in varying doses.
A truly rare thing
Is a human who wants The Truth,
Just as it is.
And the Rarest thing of all
Is a human who is willing to provide it.
Just as it is.
Namaste.
Kapil Gupta is a personal advisor to Kings, Queens, CEO’s, Professional Athletes, Celebrities, and Performing Artists around the world.
His books include:
Atmamun: The Path To Achieving The Bliss Of The Himalayan Swamis. And The Freedom Of A Living God
A Master’s Secret Whispers: For those who abhor the noise and seek The Truth about life and living
Direct Truth: Uncompromising, non-prescriptive truths to the enduring questions of life